My Sisters, Let’s Talk About Goma—We Can’t Stay Silent

Heartbreaking events in Goma: Standing in Solidarity with Congolese Women

Hey, loves,

I need to have a heart-to-heart with you about something heavy—something that’s been weighing on me and that I know we, as women, need to confront together. Have you heard what’s been happening in Goma, in the Democratic Republic of Congo?

On January 27, 2025, during a horrific prison break, over 4,000 inmates escaped from Muzenze prison. In the chaos, more than 150 women—women just like us—were brutally raped, and many were killed. Some were burned alive when the women’s area of the prison was set on fire. The sheer violence, the pain… it’s unimaginable.

And yet, for the women in Congo, this kind of violence isn’t new. For decades, they’ve been living through unimaginable horrors—conflict-related sexual violence, displacement, and fear that no woman should ever endure.

Sisters, I know this is hard to hear. It’s heartbreaking. But we can’t look away. These are our sisters too, and while we may be separated by oceans, our connection as women and as a community of strength is unbreakable.

Here’s what I want you to know:

1. Their strength is our strength. The women of Congo are survivors, but that doesn’t mean they should have to fight alone. We stand with them—through prayer, through action, and through using our voices to raise awareness.

2. We have the power to help. Whether it’s donating to organizations like Doctors Without Borders or UN Women, or simply sharing their stories so the world doesn’t forget them, we can do something.

3. Healing starts with us. Let’s take this as a moment to reflect on the privilege of safety that many of us have and use it to lift others. Advocate for justice. Push for peace. Be the light in a world that often feels so dark.

I know it’s hard to carry the weight of all this news, and it’s okay to feel helpless at times. But let me remind you—our power as women comes from our ability to connect, support, and uplift. If nothing else, let’s hold space in our hearts for the women of Goma and send prayers for their healing and safety.

We are stronger together. Never forget that.

With love and fierce sisterhood,

Sapphire Kharyzma | Qocktails & Qonversations

If you feel moved to act, here are some ways to help:

— Donate to Doctors Without Borders.

— Support UN Women in their fight for women’s safety.

— Share credible stories and raise awareness in your circles.

Let’s never let their voices be silenced.